Sexual harassments and losing grandfather
This is a case of 40 years old man who was sexually harassed since he was 2 years old. He had a feeling of heavy load on his chest, depressed and frustrated.
Sexual harassments in childhood
The sexual abuser is a person who is sick and most probably he was harassed himself at one point of his life and for sure he has many traumas which need to be sorted out. The abuser is a weak person who uses violence and harassments to get over his feelings of anger and weakness. You are stronger than the person who harassed you because you tried several times to protect yourself and you did not follow his path and you did not harass or abuse other people sexually. There are millions of cases around the world of male sexual harassments, but unfortunately there is still lack of awareness about this problem and there is need for much more work to educate people and spread awareness in order to protect kids from this problem. He is a strong and a brave person to choose resolving this trauma and speaking up about it and getting over it and the pain it is causing him. Sometimes these bad incidents which happen to us in life are a lesson for us to learn something and a message from God to help other people who are in the same situation. You will be able to help other people and kids who went through the same experience and they do not have someone to listen to them, understand them or support them. Being harassed is a hard and difficult thing, but it is a bit less harmful than rape and other sexual assaults. At that time there was not much of sexual education and the things kids do sometimes to discover sex are deformed and unnormal due to the wrong information or image they have about sex. The behavior of his grandfather during dinner time was normal, as his aunt was younger to him and she was only 1 year old, so she cannot feed herself. So, her father put her next to him on the left side in order for him to be able to feed her with his right hand. His grandfather loves him a lot and there were many incidents which showed this love especially that he is the first grandson to the family from his mother's side.
At the age of 13: he was harassed several times by a classmate who was 3 years older to him. There was an incident were he tried to protect himself from the harasser but the harasser continued to stalk and blackmail him. He felt helpless and unable to get out of the situation even though he tried to put limits and boundaries to this harasser
Many harassing incidents at primary school and from a cousin at the age of 10 and 3
At the age of 2: he was harassed by his uncle while he was at his grandfather's house .
Going Before First Incident Result:
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Condition After 2 Weeks:
Good improvement for both issues
2 hours and 30 minutes
While going to the time before the first harassment at the age of 2 by his uncle he remembered the night before while he was having dinner with the whole family and he was happy sitting next to his beloved grandfather who was feeding him. Then he burst out crying because he remembered that his aunt (who was only 1 year old) came and sat between him and his grandfather. Then his grandfather started feeding her. He felt that she took his place and that his grandfather does not love him anymore and prefers his aunt over him. After sorting out this issue and restoring his confidence in his grandfather's love and his care for him; his trauma even of all the events of the sexual harassments was resolved and he didn't anymore feel depressed or frustrated and the heavy load he felt over his chest when we started the session was not there anymore. He was relieved and felt much more relaxed, happy and comfortable.